Hard things are helpful

We’re continuing our Lent series this week with the theme of suffering.

We live in a world of pleasure and indulgence that would have been unfathomable to our ancestors. We have at our disposal more options for food, entertainment, travel, and luxuries than former kings.

Bored? Travel. Want it? Buy it. Hate it? Change it.

But for thousands of years, Christians have become more like Christ through self-denial.

Sometimes our suffering is self-imposed, but other times it happens to us. In either case, suffering provides the opportunity to “perfect our faith,” as James says.

Today, I’m giving you 1 stat, 1 quote, and 1 story to help you preach on suffering.

Stat

According to the World Happiness Report, which ranks 156 countries by how happy their citizens perceive themselves to be, richer countries had higher rates of anxiety than poorer ones.

The authors of the report wrote, “The disorder is significantly more prevalent and impairing in high-income countries than in low or middle-income countries.”

Takeaway: Avoiding misery at all costs makes us more miserable. We need suffering to experience happiness.

Source: I originally read about this study in the book Dopamine Nation (pg. 46), but the original data came from the World Happiness Report.

Quote

“I have learned to kiss the wave that throws me against the Rock of Ages.” – Charles Spurgeon

Source: The line is attributed to Spurgeon’s sermons, but it was actually written by his wife, paraphrasing her husband during seasons of illness and depression.

Story

viktor frankl

In 1942, an Austrian neurologist and psychiatrist named Viktor Frankl was arrested by the Nazis and deported to a concentration camp.

Before the war, Frankl had been a respected doctor in Vienna with a promising career. In a matter of days, everything was taken from him—his home, his work, his freedom, and eventually most of his family. Over the next three years, Frankl was imprisoned in several camps, including Auschwitz and Dachau.

Life in the camps was brutal beyond imagination. Prisoners were starved, forced into exhausting labor, and constantly subjected to humiliation and violence.

Frankl later wrote that the guards stripped prisoners of everything—clothes, possessions, names, and dignity. They were reduced to numbers. In those conditions, many prisoners lost hope and quickly deteriorated.

But as Frankl observed life in the camps, he began noticing something remarkable. Even in the worst circumstances imaginable, people still had a choice in how they responded.

Some prisoners became bitter, cruel, or despairing. Others shared their last piece of bread, comforted fellow prisoners, or maintained a quiet dignity despite their suffering.

Frankl realized that while the Nazis could take almost everything from a person, they could not take away one final freedom: the freedom to choose one’s attitude.

After the war, Frankl wrote about this experience in his famous book Man’s Search for Meaning. In it, he reflected on what helped people endure such suffering. The prisoners most likely to survive were not necessarily the strongest physically. They were often the ones who believed their lives still had meaning and purpose, even in the midst of unimaginable pain.

From these experiences, Frankl developed a psychological approach he called logotherapy, based on the idea that the primary human drive is the search for meaning. When people believe their suffering has meaning, they can endure far more than they ever imagined.

Frankl summarized the lesson this way: “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”

Takeaway: Christians can experience suffering differently from everyone else because we know it has an ultimate purpose.

Source: This is a summary of Frankl’s story from his book, Man’s Search for Meaning.

Interesting Links

World Happiness Report Findings
This link
gives the analysis from the World Happiness Report I referenced above. There is all kinds of good data here.

30 Facts About Childhood Today that Will Terrify You
I read this devastating article
this week, and was reminded that much of modern parenting, and our desire to protect our children from hard things, is setting them up for a harder life.

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